As solopreneurs, we often find ourselves wondering: How can I be in a more conscious relationship with myself so that I can truly show up for the people I wish to serve? It’s a big question, one that touches on authenticity, visibility, and purpose.

So, I turned to the Tarot for guidance with a three-card pull on ‘Awareness’, ‘Acceptance’ and ‘Action’.

The message that came was… it’s not about overthinking or trying to get everything “right”. It’s about making connections, stepping into action, and allowing alignment to come through doing, not just planning.

1. Break Free from Old Rules (The Hierophant Reversed)
You’ve already done the hardest part: realising that the traditional way isn’t for you. The reversed Hierophant signals that you’re ready to step away from old structures, expectations, and roles that no longer fit. This is your permission slip to trust your own spiritual and professional path – one that is uniquely yours.
This card also brings a challenge: are you applying what you’ve learned? Awareness is powerful, but transformation happens when we live our wisdom in real life. It’s time to take what you know and embody it in your daily actions.

2. Stop Battling with Words (Five of Swords)
Are you getting caught up in how to say the right thing? The Five of Swords suggests that you might be approaching visibility as a battle – strategising your messaging, second-guessing your words, or trying to “win” in your communication. But showing up isn’t about getting it perfect.

Instead, what if you let go of the mental tug-of-war? What if you accepted that clarity comes through doing, not overanalysing? This is an invitation to release the pressure to craft the perfect message and trust that your energy to show up, doing what you love, is all that’s needed.

3. Manifest Through Action (Three of Pentacles)
The real shift happens when you move from overthinking to co-creation. The Three of Pentacles reminds us that manifestation isn’t a solo act – it’s about collaboration, community, and aligned action.

So, instead of asking, Who should I be? What should I say? start asking:

• Who can I create with (where are the opportunities)?
• Where can I contribute in a way that feels good?

Or, in other words: Who can I support, and who can give me support?

Your visibility and authenticity will emerge naturally as a byproduct of simply making connections. You don’t need to prove yourself, shape-shift, or strategise your every word. Just take the next step, co-create something meaningful, and trust that the right people will see you in action.

Final Takeaway: Keep Moving Forward
If you’ve been feeling stuck in your business or struggling to put yourself out there, this reading is a reminder: stop waiting for the perfect words or the perfect moment. Just keep creating. Keep showing up. Keep connecting.

Your authenticity isn’t something you find, it’s something you live.

And that’s how you attract the people who are meant to walk this path with you.

Head over to my YouTube channel to watch the full card pull here.